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Erection problems

Most men will experience erection problems at some stage in their life, this might be a temporary problem or caused by a more serious health problem.

Lovelifematters offers advice on erection problems to help you and your partner. Erection problems can cause undue stress within a relationship so it is imperative to seek out medical advice sooner rather than later, as some couples separate as a result of the condition. It also leads to depression and leads to feelings of isolation in some men.

When your partner gets an erection it is as a result of a complicated set of brain signals - a mixture of emotion and physiology. When a problem occurs it may affect you both, and can upset your relationship. You need to be aware of your own needs too and ensure that you discuss these with your partner.

You should encourage your partner to make an appointment with his doctor for regular medical check-ups and to ensure that he receives diagnosis and treatment for his condition. By helping him seek out the help and advice of his doctor, you may not only help improve your sex life but also improve the health and well-being of both of you in the relationship.

Understanding his erection problem

An erection problem, sometimes referred to as impotence, but known medically as erectile dysfunction (ED), affects over 2 million men in the UK. That's around 1 in 10 men.

This section of the site explains why erectile dysfunction (ED) happens and why it's important for your partner to see a doctor. We also examine some of the emotional issues around the condition and suggest ways to cope with them.

What is causing his erection problem?

What is causing his erection problem?

Did you know that in approximately 80% of men with ED, there is an underlying
physical illness causing this problem?
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Why won't he talk about Erectile Dysfunction?

Why won't he talk about Erectile Dysfunction?

Why is it so difficult for men to talk about a sexual problem? Most men would say that they are embarrassed and distressed that they are unable to fulfil their partner's
needs.
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Erection problem - Is it my fault

'Is it my fault?'

It's common for women to blame themselves when a partner suffers from problems in achieving or maintaining an erection. You may feel that there's something wrong
with your lovemaking technique or that your partner doesn't find you attractive any more.
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